There are a few things I do regularly that make my mommy grad life easier.
I do laundry every day.
I don't go through the whole wash, dry, fold, and put clothes away cycle every day. But I definitely do one or two of those steps daily. Laundry for three people in the winter is killer. I always begin or finish whites, linens, Henry's clothes, Barry's work clothes, lulu, whatever (I swear I have at least ten separate categories). Laundry is truly never done. But I also never get buried by it.
I make sure at least one room is pristine before I go to bed.
It's usually the kitchen. It is never my bedroom.
I bake on Sundays.
And although I'm really bad about posting my treats, I do this pretty regularly. Today I made Irish Potatoes for St. Patty's day. Not baking...but close enough. Last week is was strawberry muffins. Week before that, cornbread.
I loosely plan breakfast for Henry way in advance.
If you look in my fridge, you'll see fresh pineapple and cantaloupe cut up and in tupperware, pancake mix in a squeezy bottle, and the omelette pan on the burner, ready for a 2-egg spinach ham scramble. Breakfast in the morning can be a battle, so I come prepared.
I shop for fresh fruits and vegetables every weekend.
I wish I could get my act together to go to the farmer's markets on Tuesdays and Thursdays in NOLA but I. Just. Can't. Too busy. So I head to Whole Foods or Rouses or Winn Dixie on the weekends for the goods. Not Breax Mart (overpriced and not fresh) and not Wal-Mart (scary).
I try to make progress on one craft project. Every week.
I have so many works in progress. Right now, I'm making a Animal Crackers-esque storage thing for all of Henry's toys. So excited for how it turns out. I've assembled 2 of 4 of the crates and none of the paint. But today I bought the elastic "bars". Progress.
I only read 3 hours before classtime.
If I don't, all the information just leaks out. Fresh is best.
I do school work from 9-5. And then I stop.
I have the occasional client that requires me to work past that time, and right now, I have two classes that don't end until 6. But I seldom do work on weekends, and when I do, it's after Henry goes to bed. Weekends are for him and B. That's it, that's all. Unless I have midterms or finals. Or a paper deadline. Grrrr.
I have a research day.
On Thursdays, I work on my personal research. Besides a Pure Barre class in the morning, I don't do anything else but sit on my couch (or in a coffee shop) and work on my prelim paper. Some semesters, I've only been able to designate a morning or afternoon to my research. Regardless, it's important for me to protect my research time. There's no way I would have finished my thesis on time without adhering to this rule.
and last,
I live and die by my iCal.
I schedule everything - said reading, exercise, girl's nights. All of it. One day, I'll screen shot the neurosis for you.
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